Jealousy is like a monster which many people want to get rid of. Having trust in a relationship is is essential to overcome jealousy. And it is important to never compare a dreadful relationship with the one you are in now right now. The biggest thing in a relationship is *TRUST*. It’s hard, especially when someone you completely trusted just takes a shovel and beats the living beejezus out of it. Trust me — I know the feeling.
If you are trying to overcome or stop jealousy in your relationship then the best advice I can give to you is: give it time and give him *trust*. If he’s out with his “girl” friends and he swears that he doesn’t cheat and never has, then take it for what its worth. If you have no real, legitimate reason why he would, then why should you think any differently? A man can only take so much of a woman’s jealousy. No man wants someone who feels insecure about themselves.
Women are used to a lot of B.S. from guys just so they can get into their panties.. and believe me.. If he really didn’t love you, he would have moved on by now. You have to be comfortable with yourself and know yourself worth if you ever want to make the relationship work. Otherwise, worrying about whether or not he is cheating on you is not going to help either one of you in the long run.
Start by living your own life. Jealousy is a form of control, which you do not have over any other person and you end up feeling angry and depressed about, so the only person who is hurting you is yourself. Insecurity comes from not being sure about yourself or the situation, start by taking control, of yourself I mean!
When trying to overcome jealousy in a relationship, always remember this: looks can be deceiving!
You must be secure with yourself to begin with, because of your insecurities you maybe comparing your partner to your friends. Does your partner treat you right? Does he/she love you? Does he/she try? If yes then you need to find out what is YOUR issue and grow up. Realize what you got and in your eyes that person should be the best. If you allow insecurities to come over you then you will never be satisfied.
If you really love your man/woman, what else matters? Or if something really bothers you, why don’t you tell them the truth or tell them by kidding with them! It is often said the most serious things are said in jokes. Be smart! Wise! Love them as they are. That is what matters; what’s in them.
Make sure you stay involved with life and have hobbies and such so that you don’t focus too much energy into this not having the right relationship thing. It’s not everything in life! Appreciate what you have and keep yourself entertained! If you are a quality person with a fun enjoyable personality eventually a mature partner will find you and appreciate you!
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